The Beauty of Forgiveness
What is forgiveness?
Where does all the beauty of the world come from? Do we have to take peace and prosperity in this world for granted? What if peace and tranquillity was just a new song from the blue? All these aspects and crucial part of this beautiful world we are living in would not have come by or reached where they have had it not been the little peace and love portrayed among the beloved brothers and sisters living in this global village and a home to many of the beautiful cultures allover the world. With the ever ending civil conflict which is just due to the multiplicity of the elements and due to the fact that man is a social animal and the fact that there is always competition among the species for survival for the fittest and the role of the superior race and culture, many a times people have just not been able to resolve many of the worlds simple conflicts just because of the fact that we are yet to unlock the secrets of being able to live in harmony and that can only be done by letting things go despite when we are being wronged.
While forgiveness can be defined in many ways such as granting pardon to our beloved friends who have wronged us, abused us and we stop to blame them for all what they have done unto us. When people forgive in this beautiful world, people need to do it freely. Forgiveness should come from the heart freely and with no reservation of the heart or of the mind.
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Must I practise Forgiveness as a human?
What is this myth about forgiveness. Well many beautiful people say Forgive and you will be forgiven as well. Who doesn’t want to be forgiven in this beautiful world. With many decades gone, Shakespeare once said “We make 100 Mistakes daily, but we do not hate ourselves. Our friend only makes 1 mistake and we hate him in 1 second” Think about it. People say forgive and you will be forgiven. Forgiveness is just an option which people should opt to be doing all the time and they should not grow weary of it. By the way when you tend not to want to forgive, its just one way of eroding your body day by day. Just as H CL which is very corrosive to any metal. While a container which is filled with H CL will shine from the outside but the entire container from the inside will be eaten slowly . What should we be burning from inside in this beautiful world while we can learn to forgive.
We all need love everywhere we go. People need to be appreciated in all aspects of life. There are those who excel in doing things and there are those who need a helping hand a swell. With disparities in education communication and information available, these areas of haves and have not are just some of the given dynamics which lead to people to realise that there are always areas where people can cooperate and when that cooperation is evident, minds do differ and as a result words are always exchanged. The ensuing events are always disagreements which can lead to peoples hearts and feelings being hurt. With little realisation that people are different and some people cannot take the heat more than others its just right and appropriate to create peace and maintain peace wherever possible and those who can initiate it and keep it moving is just one step or creating this world and the community a better place to live in. What if I don’t forgive?
Would there be peace if there was no forgiveness within our communities? How would the world be if people do let bygones be bygones? I guess when people just don’t want to forget they just don’t forgive. When we don’t forgive, there is always a connection reminding us what has been going on and the long lasting effects is that people take all their grudges to the grave as well. With the act of not forgiving, it can start from the family and close friends which we associate with, The unforgiving then extends to the society and the people we work and associate with or work and community and the environment. Does the act of unforgiving end there/ Well as far as many of those who have been oppressed or condemned by the modern society you get that the governments and the ruling elite as well the haves and have not just contribute to the circle of people who just don’t want to be forgiven. In the real sense there are many economical social and political situations which make the individual not want to forgive. Just remembering the intentional suffering which one could have been lead do endure just creates the environment not to forgive. Given the fact that the person , group or association is just complex and dynamic to pinpoint an individual who are concerned in the upheavals of the society which creates the the feeling of not wanting to forgive.
People wrong us every day and its
While we are being wronged every day, we should have the heart to be able to withstand all the intended and unintended happenings which do make us angry and when you get annoyed, the act of forgiveness should be there ready to close the chapter and start again. While all the clergy and different cultures and ethical groups stand for forgiveness, it is always difficult to interpret what is written in the Holly books. While people take the scriptures and quote what fits for them, the interpretation of “ A tooth for a tooth and an eye for an eye” are just some of the interpretation which do not leave room for
How Can I really forgive .
Can people really forgive and forget. Just like an open wound which heals after some good care and medication, its just that part of our minds which with every new moment gives pleasure and satisfaction to an individual its just the part of our mind which when we associate any event or moment which triggers the mind to react in such a way. If one has been taught to forgive as it is divine to do and we have always been told to forgive as may times as we can as humans are people who when overwhelmed with different situations or events, there are many aspects which just trigger people to react the way they do and the solution is just to explode and where there are always different of opinions there will always be conflict which when not resolved in the civilised way, there are always repercussion and these would still be followed by forgiveness and the act of being forgiven as well. Forgiveness or when someone needs to forgive someone, it might not just take place at once. Well when everyone realises what were the events relating to such a situation, one has to come to terms that the other party did so with the realisation that he was doing something wrong or was not aware because of not being informed or jut because there was negligence from someone else and there by leading to the present event which would later require the two parties to forgive one another and let bygones be bygones.
Is Forgiveness too easy on an offender?
There are peaceful aspects on people which need to be realised
Forgiveness voluntary decision
The old age and the new age Forgiveness
Our contemporary forgiving style
When you practise forgiveness.
When you practise forgiveness, its just one of the day today obligation which has been grounded in our heads from as long as humans can remember. We have always been forgiven many times when we do something wrong and the same practise or virtue is also extended to us. Whether it is our birth right to be forgiven as we keep on forgiving others, there is always a distinction for the ones who need to be forgiven and the ones who do not or just don’t feel the need of being forgiven after intentionally doing wrong. Its only when someone realises his or her mistakes and asks for forgiveness which will come the urge of being wanting to be forgiven. Despite the complexities with pride and general will and well being of the people, Loosing face and keeping face is just one area which let people not to take the initiative to forgive and to be forgiven. The bridge of forgiveness.
There is always dissatisfaction on the person who forgives and the person who has been forgiven. Being in the shoes of the person being forgiven means something for the kind act which one does willingly and sometimes which condition which could be as a condition to show your outstanding of the situation. For many who are forgiven, their lives should set forth new avenues to realise where they have been and where they have come from. The new life or episode after the act of doing harm or wrong is something which needs to be put in the mind and later be sent out of the mind once and for all.
GOD: Sure.
Me (growling): At lunch, they made my sandwich wrong and I had to wait
Me: I won't God. And let me just tell you God, thank you for everything today.
